early infancy, at the profuse beauty with which the instincts deck the nuptial bower, and nature and intellect
and art emulate each other in the gifts and the melody they bring to the epithalamium.
Thus are we put in training for a love which knows not sex, nor person, nor partiality, but which seeks
virtue and wisdom everywhere, to the end of increasing virtue and wisdom. We are by nature observers,
and thereby learners. That is our permanent state. But we are often made to feel that our affections are
but tents of a night. Though slowly and with pain, the objects of the affections change, as the objects of
thought do. There are moments when the affections rule and absorb the man and make his happiness
dependent on a person or persons. But in health the mind is presently seen again,its overarching
vault, bright with galaxies of immutable lights, and the warm loves and fears that swept over us as clouds
must lose their finite character and blend with God, to attain their own perfection. But we need not fear
that we can lose any thing by the progress of the soul. The soul may be trusted to the end. That which
is so beautiful and attractive as these relations, must be succeeded and supplanted only by what is
more beautiful, and so on for ever.