this only, contentedly, regularly, uncomplainingly all their lives long, as if they had no germs of faculties
for anything elsea doctrine as reasonable to hold as it would be that the fathers have no faculties
but for eating what their daughters cook, or for wearing what they sew. Could men live so themselves?
Would they not be very weary? And, when there came no relief to their weariness, but only reproaches
at its slightest manifestation, would not their weariness ferment in time to frenzy? Lucretia, spinning
at midnight in the midst of her maidens, and Solomons virtuous woman are often quoted as patterns
of what the sex (as they say) ought to be. I dont know. Lucretia, I dare say, was a most worthy sort
of person, much like my cousin, Hortense Moore, but she kept her servants up very late. I should not
have liked to be amongst the number of the maidens. Hortense would just work me and Sarah in that
fashion, if she could, and neither of us would bear it. The virtuous woman, again, had her household
up in the very middle of the night. She got breakfast over, as Mrs. Sykes says, before one oclock
a.m.; but she had something more to do than spin and give out portions. She was a manufacturershe
made fine linen and sold it; she was an agriculturistshe bought estates and planted vineyards. That
woman was a manager; she was what the matrons here-abouts call a clever woman. On the whole, I
like her a good deal better than Lucretia; but I dont believe either Mr. Armitage or Mr. Sykes could have
got the advantage of her in a bargain, yet I like her. Strength and honour were her clothing; the heart
of her husband safely trusted in her. She opened her mouth with wisdom; in her tongue was the law
of kindness; her children rose up and called her blessed; her husband also praised her. King of Israel,
your model of a woman is a worthy model! But are we, in these days, brought up to be like her? Men of
Yorkshire, do your daughters reach this royal standard? Can they reach it? Can you help them to reach
it? Can you give them a field in which their faculties may be exercised and grow? Men of England, look
at your poor girls, many of them fading around you, dropping off in consumption or decline; or, what
is worse, degenerating to sour old maidsenvious, backbiting, wretched, because life is a desert to
them; or, what is worst of all, reduced to strive, by scarce modest coquetry and debasing artifice, to gain
that position and consideration by marriage, which to celibacy is denied. Fathers, cannot you alter these
things? Perhaps not all at once, but consider the matter well when it is brought before you; receive it as
a theme worthy of thought; do not dismiss it with an idle jest or an unmanly insult. You would wish to be
proud of your daughters, and not to blush for them, then seek for them an interest and an occupation
which shall raise them above the flirt, the manuvrer, the mischief-making tale-bearer. Keep your girls
minds narrow and fettered, they will still be a plague and a care, sometimes a disgrace to you. Cultivate
themgive them scope and workthey will be your gayest companions in health, your tenderest nurses
in sickness, your most faithful prop in age.