the loss of a child is one of those great trials where our grief may be allowed to become immoderate.Well,
sir, cries Joseph, and if I love a mistress as well as you your child, surely her loss would grieve
me equally.Yes, but such love is foolishness and wrong in itself, and ought to be conquered, answered
Adams; it savours too much of the flesh.Sure, sir, says
Joseph, it is not sinful to love my wife, no, not even to doat on her to distraction!Indeed but it is,
says Adams. Every man ought to love his wife, no doubt; we are commanded so to do; but we ought
to love her with moderation and discretion.I am afraid I shall be guilty of some sin in spite of all my
endeavours, says Joseph; for I shall love without any moderation, I am sure.You talk foolishly and
childishly, cries Adams.Indeed, says Mrs. Adams, who had listened to the latter part of their conversation,
you talk more foolishly yourself. I hope, my dear, you will never preach any such doctrine as that husbands
can love their wives too well. If I knew you had such a sermon in the house I am sure I would burn
it, and I declare, if I had not been convinced you had loved me as well as you could, I can answer for
myself, I should have hated and despised you. Marry come up! Fine doctrine, indeed! A wife hath a
right to insist on her husbands loving her as much as ever he can; and he is a sinful villain who doth
not. Doth he not promise to love her, and to comfort her, and to cherish her, and all that? I am sure
I remember it all as well as if I had repeated it over but yesterday, and shall never forget it. Besides,
I am certain you do not preach as you practise; for you have been a loving and a cherishing husband
to me; thats the truth ont; and why you should endeavour to put such wicked nonsense into this young
mans head I cannot devise. Dont hearken to him, Mr. Joseph; be as good a husband as you are able,
and love your wife with all your body and soul too. Here a violent rap at the door put an end to their
discourse, and produced a scene which the reader will find in the next chapter.